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Right Motives

Dwan Riggins

I don’t see anything wrong with a man …pursing… a woman and demonstrating he’s interested/serious about her by treating her to reasonably nice things. But ladies, we’ve got to get off of this stuck-up pedestal as if the man is a lap dog that should cater to our every want and need. Turn these juvenile podcasts off …please. I’m tired of the narrative that paints the man as thirsty and the woman as bougie and demanding. There’s no way we are prepared for marriage if we see ourselves as God’s gift to men …like they owe us something. It’s disrespectful. 


If you’re not interested in him, articulate that. 


We are practicing who we are daily. If you want a man who is interested in you to show you attention and make time for you, reciprocate that. Don’t treat him like he has to contact your personal assistant to schedule an appointment with you.


I encourage you to have lots of conversations with your male friends, father, brothers, and male mentors. A strong, secure man who is seriously pursuing a wife …won’t dare pursue a self-centered, demanding, stuck-up woman who dishonors men, talks about, treats men like lap dogs; a woman who makes herself the prize and more valuable than him. Because he knows, marriage won’t change what she’s already demonstrated.

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